Sahar Ibrahim Family Fund

22 05 2008
Bismillah

Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji’oon.

This man’s two children are now orphaned. Let’s help out any way we can insha Allah. Don’t delay. Donate now. Imagine if this was your child, your family.

A former community member of Long Island, Hany Shehata has recently passed away in a fatal car accident. His wife Sahar, and his two children Yusuf and May were all in the car when this took place. His family pretty much saw him bleed to death, since the ambulance did not reach him until an hour after the accident. Inna Lillahi wa inna ‘ilayhi raji’un. Yusuf’s right foot was badly burned in the accident and may need surgery.

The family was in a difficult situation. He was the primary income of the family, working full-time at home depot. His wife Sahar had a part-time job with no benefits.

They have little or no support group in Delaware since they only moved there recently from Long Island.

Below are some of the options you have of donating to the Sahar Ibrahim Family Fund

1. Through Paypal
(transfer payments to email HibzEssense@gmail.com) & put “Sr Sahar Fun” in the comments section)

2. You can write a Cheque payable to:

Sahar Ibrahim
316 Marldale Drive
Middletown, DE 19709

Please spread the word.

The sister to contact for donations and further information, is sister Zuhal.
zuhal (dot) khwaja (at) gmail.com

«لا إله إلا الله ولا نعبد إلا إياه، له النعمة وله الفضل وله الثناء الحسن، لا إله إلا الله مخلصين له الدين ولو كره الكافرون»

((There is nothing worthy of worship except Allaah, and we do not worship except Him, Belonging to Him are the Blessings and the Bounties, and for Him are the most beautiful of praises. There is nothing worthy of worship except Allaah, sincere to Him in our deen, even if the disbelievers hate that.))





Ten Things We Waste

18 05 2008

Lessons from Imam Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyyah

1. Our Knowledge: Wasted by not taking action with it

2. Our Actions: Wasted by committing them without sincerity.

3. Our Wealth: Wasted by using on things that will not bring us ajr (reward from Allah). We waste our money, our status, our authority, on things which have no benefit in this life or in akhirah (hereafter).

4. Our Hearts: Wasted because they are empty from the love of Allah, and the feeling of longing to go to Him, and a feeling of peace and contentment. In it’s place, our hearts are filled with something or someone else.

5. Our Bodies: Wasted because we don’t use them in ibadah (worship) and service of Allah.

6. Our Love: Our emotional love is misdirected, not towards Allah, but towards something/someone else.

7. Our Time: Wasted, not used properly, to compensate for that which has passed, by doing what is righteous to make up for past deeds.

8. Our Intellect: Wasted on things that are not beneficial, that are detrimental to society and the individual, not in contemplation or reflection.

9. Our Service: Wasted in service of someone who will not bring us closer to Allah, or benefit in dunyaa.

10. Our Dhikr (Remembrence of Allah): Wasted, because it does not effect us or our hearts.





|| Reflection on Finals Week ||

18 05 2008

Asalamu Alaikum waRahmatullahi waBarakatu

I got this from a friend last year, Jazaaha Allahu Khairun & thought I’d pass it along, May it be of benefit *ameen*

I think time is valued the most during finals week. You hear people from every corner of the room talking about how they have 10 minutes to eat, 3 hours to sleep, and then two papers to write and an exam to study for.

Something happened today in the library and it made me think. A girl sat in the SINC site for three hours doing a project. For some reason, it didn’t save on the computer she was working on, although she said she did hit “Save”, and then she exited out. Three hours of hard work…down the drain. And not just during any week, no, during finals week–where every minute is important. Not only would she now not be able to hand her work in on time, it would slow down all of the other things she had to do. She freaked.

So then I thought: what if this week were the final week of the dunya? Or just of our lives? Why do we not freak out when we waste three hours doing something that will in no way help our final grade in the dunya?

We embrace distractions from friends all throughout the year but when finals week comes– “Stay away from me! No, I can’t go to the mall with you. No time to waste! No, I can’t eat with you either, I already ate a twinkie.”  And it does make sense for the dunya. I mean, we know when finals week is.

But that’s the sad part. We don’t know when the final week of the dunya is. Or of our lives. So how can we go on and let ourselves be distracted and heedless all year long? The most successful students are those that are eating those quick lunches and refusing to go to the mall with you all year long, because they have high goals they have to meet. Then there are those who are just rolling with the ball the whole semester and wake up during finals week. But at least they wake up and at least pass their classes. But how could someone be distracted all semester, and continue to be distracted during finals week and do well? In other words, the only way we can pass this grand test of the dunya…the only way we can get any success in the Hereafter is if we constantly keep ourselves awake. We don’t know when the last week will be…so if we’re acting like it’s not the last week, every week….we’re doomed for failure. One of those weeks will be the final week.

And I thought about how Allah swt says in the Qur’an that on the Day of Judgement, there will be people, who when they are asked  how many years they spent on this earth, they will reply, “probably a day or less than a day”. And they won’t be lying…they’ll really believe this was the truth. Because they will have wasted all of their time on earth. They will be shown their deeds and they will not be able to fathom how they could have spent so many years on earth and done such few good deeds.
Allah swt gave us so much time to beautify our hearts, to do good deeds. And on the day of judgment, when we present our hearts to Him ‘azza wa jall, it is us who will look at them and our book of deeds and be mortified at how it could take so many years to make something so ugly and worthless. It is us who will look at the empty pages where good deeds were supposed to be and say, “I must have lived only a day then…how else could this be possible?” (but insha Allah it won’t be us. May Allah swt protect us and save us from being amongst these people. May He swt give us the tawfiq to properly avail the time we are given in this dunya. Ameen)

Let us all insha Allah (myself first before anyone else) take this time management lesson from finals. If we can get so much done for the dunya in this week, why can we not do at least half of this for the akhira during other weeks? Let us race for good deeds not only in Ramadan, but year-round, so that we don’t have to look at our book of deeds on the Day of judgment and think we only lived one Ramadan. There are so many simple things to do that don’t occupy much time or effort, like dhikr. Let it occupy your tongue constantly.

And the next time we get frustrated because something really important that shouldn’t have got deleted, got deleted…..maybe we should focus our energy on thinking about if we get that frustrated when some of our greatest deeds get deleted (because of insincerity to Allah swt, or some other reason), and if we would work as hard to retrieve those good deeds as we would to retrieve our deleted project.





Advice From Umar Al Khattab…

1 05 2008

Adorn Yourselves for the Greater Display

Umar ibn al-Khattab (radiAllahu `anhu) said,

“Take account of your own selves (i.e., of your deeds),

before you will be taken to account (on the Day of Resurrection).

Weigh yourselves (i.e., your deeds) before you will be weighed

(i.e., before your deeds will be put on the balances on the Day of Resurrection).

Verily, if you hold yourselves accountable today,

the accountability tomorrow (i.e., the Day of Resurrection) will be easier upon you.

And adorn yourselves for the greater display

(i.e., for when you will be brought to Judgment):

“That Day shall you be brought to Judgment, not a secret of you will be hidden.”
( Quran 69:18 )

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